Discouraged ?
You've been focused. You've been disciplined. You've made the effort, day after day, month after month, year after year. You've given your best, then gone back and given some more.
And yet, you're still not there. Some days the goal seems closer, other days the goal seems farther away than ever. How do you keep going? Indeed, why should you keep going?
Because much of the value of your goal is not in the attainment, but in the pursuit. Certainly the attainment is important. Yet if the end result could be had without the effort, of what value would it be? You're striving toward a goal. Results certainly count. Still, you've already reaped many of the benefits even though the desired result is not yet within reach.
Do you want to continue learning, growing, gaining strength and enjoying the positive benefits of your focused, disciplined actions? Or do you want to give up after already investing so much? That's your choice, but either way, you're ahead of where you started. And when you continue on your sure and determined path, doing whatever it takes, you will eventually reach the desired destination. Keep going, not so much because of where you'll end up, but because of what you'll make of yourself in the process. - Ralph Marston
THE POWER OF COMMITMENT
When you commit to Taekwon-Do
training, you commit to achieving a Black Belt. It is best to
adopt that mentality as early as possible in your training. Then,
nothing less than earning a Black Belt will satisfy you. A
program that requires similar commitment is University. When
students enroll into a University program, they usually
dont do so with the intent to take a couple of classes and
then drop out. University students enroll because they want to
graduate someday as experts in their field. In Taekwon-Do,
achieving the rank of Black Belt is just like graduating from
University. If you stop training at some belt in the middle of
the ranking system, thats just like dropping out of
University. Furthermore, earning a Black Belt is just like
earning a four year degree from University. They both require
tons of determination, patience, sacrifice and discipline.
But, as you have heard a thousand times before, "all good
things come to those who wait" . Taekwon-Do training is
highly indicative of that phrase. Theres nothing like the
feeling of earning your Black Belt. Unfortunately, its
almost impossible to relate to this if you are not already a
Black Belt. You simply cant know how truly great it feels
until youve experienced it yourself. Likewise, you
cant put on a white lab coat and a stethoscope and feel the
prestige that a doctor feels when he goes walking in to a
hospital. You must work hard for honours such as these and earn
the right to enjoy them. But Ill assure you that it is well
worth whatever sacrifices that you have to make in order to get
there.
Good Luck !!!